Is He Flirting With You?

"Is he flirting with me?" Lots of women have a hard time trying to answering this question.

Different people communicate in different ways. Some people are just naturally very friendly.

But sometimes they’re friendliness can get taken as something much more.

If you find yourself unsure if he’s flirting with you, don’t fret. Instead of asking yourself “is he flirting”, you should instead ask yourself the following questions:

Where is His Attention?

Guys that are flirting with you will more than likely give you their undivided attention.

This means that while the two of you are talking, he’s not scanning the room or checking his text messages.

Instead he should be listening to what you’re saying and contributing to the conversation.

Flirting oftentimes has a certain flow to it, which has a way of making two people in sync. If you find that this feeling starts to drift, you may need to take action in order to get his attention again.

Where is His Entourage?

Let’s face it...flirting with someone isn’t something you want to do in front of an audience.

If you were originally talking to two or more guys, and you now find yourself only talking to just one of those guys, then there’s a good chance he’s flirting with you.

You see, guys have a way of knowing when they’re buddies are trying to hit it off with a girl. Sometimes, it could be through a certain signal, but most of the time it’s through pure intuition.

Regardless, the last thing his friends will want to do is throw his game off. That’s why they’ll usually look for an early opportunity to excuse themselves, and leave the two of you alone.

What’s He Doing with His Body Language?

I’ve devoted an entire section of this site to body language, simply because it’s such an important part of flirting.

Yet, one of the most common issues people have is that they can’t remember all of the body language signals they need to look out for.

If this is a problem you face, then I’m about to make your life a lot easier.

The key thing that you should be looking out for is whether or not the guy you’re talking to is leaning his body in towards you. Leaning in is what we all naturally do when we’re attracted to someone. If he's leaning towards you often, then he definitely into you!

What’s He Talking About?

By far, the easiest way to tell if a guy is flirting with you id to pay attention to what it is he’s talking about. Guys have a tendency to brag a lot when they’re flirting.

A lot of men think that by telling a girl about their accomplishment or about the fancy things they own, they’ll manage to impress the girl they’re talking to.

This is fine in small doses, but when a guy brags too much it usually ends up looking a little desperate.

So is He Flirting?

By asking yourself the questions I just outlined, you should be well on your way to answering the question: “Is he flirting with me?”

Once you answer this question, then the next question to ask yourself is if it’s time to flirt back with him!

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